Monday, October 20, 2008

REASONS

There are reasons why certain things that we want don't come our way. The work I do isn't just about picturing a house and then getting the house or writing down the qualities of the person you want to find to be your mate and then attracting them.

Manifesting and keeping what you manifest are actually more complex than that. I know that many who teach about the Law of Attraction would dispute this, but they probably would agree that we are our own worst enemies.

When we prevent ourselves from having what it is that we really want in life we need to look at that problem closely. Sometimes it requires psychotherapy for us to break through the blocks that keep our desires from us. Coaching alone is often not enough. Some people are great at manifesting but they avoid looking deeper into their issues. Maybe, everything that you desire is really a desire to a hole that can't be filled with your goals. How many times have you achieved a goal only to realize that it didn't give you what you had hoped it would.

Success is an art form and it can be learned. We have to be focused and clear on what we want in order to succeed. Sometimes deciding what that is, is the hardest part of the process. Other issues get in the way, and sometimes those issues can only be addressed in psychotherapy. In an ideal world we would all have a coach and a psychotherapist for support. Sometimes due to financial concerns we have to make a choice between one or the other. Many who are coached hide behind their goals and don't want to look at their deeper issues with a therapist.

It's important to look deep below the surface in order to attain true happiness. Inner peace is a worthy goal. Making inner peace and/or spiritual growth your primary goal can put you on the right path and you will find yourself on the path that you are meant to be on without having to put much effort into it.





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Debbie Simon is a NY State Licensed Clinical Psychotherapist and Life Coach

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I am a seasoned psychotherapist who has been on a spiritual journey. I believe in the intersection of spirituality and psychotherapy. The field of psychotherapy is rapidly changing and I am part of this change. The old traditional ways don't work anymore. I also do health coaching and have worked for programs at AETNA and ABILTO as a coach.